Questions & Answers

Please RSVP by July 31st via snail mail, or email!

While kids are definitely welcome, we do have a limited number of guests! We will specify on your invitation if your kiddos are invited! We promise it's not personal, just space issue! BMBR does provide babysitting services (for a fee), let us know if you think you'll need it and we'll get you in touch with the right people!

Space is limited at the venue, and we want to make sure that we have all of our best friends and loved ones with us. We will let you know on your invitation if you have a plus one. If you would like a plus one, let us know ASAP and we will do our best to accommodate! No promises though, most of you are industry.. you get it!

Reach out to Kate or Brett directly! Or shoot us an email - thesuesswedding@gmail.com

Nope! We are deep in Pisgah National Forest, where cell service does not exist! Trust us, you won't even miss it. If needed there is WIFI at Rock Pavilion (Reception Location), The Main Deck Area and at the Cafe.

Yes! They love animals at BMBR! There is a $25 pet fee (per pet) per unit, and all they ask is that they remain on a leash!

Yes! You do not need to bring your own sheets, towels, etc! Think "glamping".

We are trying to maximize the space that we have for guests to stay on-site! Take a look at the lodging page and send us a request for a cabin or yurt and let us know who's staying with you! Once we finalize the cabin/yurt assignments BMBR will take over and send you an invoice!

Think 3 day, 2 night Wedding Weekend at an adult summer camp. Expect to swim, explore and get a little messy.

Friday 9.6.24 Welcome Party in the Speakeasy 6:00 - 10:00 PM All are welcome to join us in the speakeasy for a relaxed barbeque dinner and drinks! There is absolutely no obligation to come to this, but we'd love to see all of you before the big day! Saturday 9.7.24 The Wedding Day Spend the day roaming the property, go for a hike or a swim, whatever! Just make sure you're ready for the ceremony! Ceremony: 5:00 - 5:30 PM Cocktail: 5:30 - 6:00 PM Reception: 6:00 - 11 PM (dinner and dancing) Sunday 9.8.24 Recovery Day Join us for a farewell brunch at Rocky Pavilion, or head out! We're all good at an Irish goodbye, sometimes!

All activities will be held on the BMBR property! Our goal is that we all park, and don't drive until Sunday!

Remember, we are going to be in the woods - we do not recommend bringing clothes or shoes that you don't want to get messy or wet. Again, think adult summer camp! BMBR is a 20 drive away from the nearest town, so make sure that you bring some basic groceries or snacks to have in your cabin or yurt. There is a small cafe which does coffee, sandwiches and pizzas, but it is not open 24/7. Click here to see BMBR Cafe & Dining!

Outdoors! The ceremony will be held on the beach, cocktail hour will be on The Deck, and the reception will be held inside Rock Pavilion! We absolutely recommend wearing comfortable shoes!

Semi-Formal, Fun, Funky, Colorful, Retro! Nothing about this wedding is traditional, so have fun with it!!

Yes!! There will be snacks available during cocktail hour, and a family-style dinner served during the reception.

Duh! Both the Welcome Party and Reception are Open Bar! Feel free to bring your own beverages for daytime drinking!

No problem!! You can let us know on your RSVP card, and we will make sure you're taken care of!

Ceremony will begin at 5:00 PM (or 5:10, if you know us well enough haha). Plan on arriving at Rocky Pavilion between 4:30 and 4:45 so you can get a seat. Don't worry, we'll have some cold ones ready for ya.

Mid-Century Modern meets Wes Anderson. Weird, we know. Just trust us. It's gonna be good.